Is an eternally nagging question that even war veterans find difficult to handle. It so happens that the daughters-in-law are the products of the millennial age, and the mothers-in-law are the children of the transition period, culturally speaking.
It so happens that most of today's mothers-in-law grew up in the lap of matriarchal dominance, and the DIL is from that brave new world that shouts out gender equality. The cultural and generation gap is surely to blame for the eternal fight between the mother and daughter-in-law. So, the husband trains himself to juggle two boats simultaneously. The MIL should understand that her DIL has detached herself from the entire family to be a part of the MILs family. Whereas the DIL should understand the value of a beautiful institution such as marriage the sanctity involved and imbibe some values that are a part of the traditional Indian psyche. Treat them respectfully according to the position of their importance in the family. However, the best advice would be to turn on your humanitarian and compassionate side and learn to treat human beings as human beings who have equal rights and needs. You should know that your DIL/MIL is a human too, with her plus and minuses. All of us deserve pity as every one of us goes through hell all the time. Our expressions are our emotional outlets. And we better understand. It is up to us to be human beings, as it is our dharma.
It is up to the others to be what they are, which is our/their karma.
In-Laws as per date of birth and Time
However, we can consider the following astrological measures to escape the much-awaited heartache. By looking at your marriage horoscope, you can know your in-laws' good or bad traits.
Mother-in-law: The 10th House from the 7th House represents mother-in-law. This House, if strongly fortified, certainly creates sparkling vibes between the MIL and DIL. In the case of women, Jupiter signifies husband in their horoscopes, and the fourth House from Jupiter has clues to your mom-in-law's personality. We could also check for the planets in the 10th House, lord of 10th House and 4th House from Jupiter, and lord of 4th House from Jupiter. The most powerful planet amongst these lets you in on the exact nature of your mil. That would also be the ruling planet of your MIL.
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Dashamesh is the tenth house lord. It represents your mother-in-law. If the dashmesh is sun, then mother-in-law would be a control freak. If the moon happens to be the dashmesh, mother-in-law would be a caring, kind soul. Mother-in-law would be very strict and obsessed about discipline, but overall good at heart if the tenth lord is Mars. If mercury is seated as the tenth lord, the mother-in-law of the native would be a smart woman. If dashmesh happens to be Jupiter, mother-in-law would be very pious. If venus is dashmesh, mother-in-law would be beautiful and modern. If Saturn is dashmesh, mother-in-law would be restrictive closed-minded, but overall good. If Rahu Ketu were dashmesh, mother-in-law would be a tyrant and be extremely troublesome to the native. Afflicted or debilitated or weak dashmesh would point at a mother-in-law who would be too challenging to handle, whereas a fortified dashmesh in raja yoga would mean that your mother-in-law would be a gem of a person.
Father-in-law: The 3rd House or the ninth from the 7th House is the significator for FIL. A good number of benefic influences on this House increases the concord between you and your FIL. We can ascertain whether he is alive or dead through the Dasha and Bhukti of the native and also by the nature of afflicted sun from the seventh House. If the lord of 3rd house is exalted, the FIL will be an affluent man well settled in life. A debilitated planet will indicate an interfering FIL that always meddles with the native's life.
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A similar result is predicted for the third lord in debilitation in the navamsha chart. This shows that The FIL would be the main obstacle to the native's success in life. The influence of Sun, Saturn, and Rahu on the third lord creates a rift between the FIL and the person concerned. The fifth and ninth lords on the 3rd lord and well-placed benefics like Jupiter and Venus give a caring and generous FIL.
Brother or sister-in-law: The 9th House or the third from the seventh House governs the younger brother or sister-in-law. The fifth House, or the 11th from the 7th, rules elder brother or sister-in-law. The placement of Rahu or Mars in the 9th House indicates arguments with the brothers or sisters-in-law. Friendly planets like Jupiter, Moon, or Venus improve the chances of a cordial relationship with the brothers or sisters-in-law. If the House Lords are in a weak House from the native's ascendant, it may lead to troubles within the relationship.
The second House would be worthy of consideration here as it is termed the Kutumba bhava or House of relatives. It indicates those staying outside your family, those not necessarily related by blood.
The 8th House or the 2nd to the 7th House signifies the relatives of in-laws.
The sixth House to the 7th House, that is, the 12th House, denotes the maternal uncles of the partner.
Source: In laws from a horoscope
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